So, when mutual friends started gushing about some wedding details — the venue, the dress, the date — and I asked who was getting married, they shockingly answered. “Are you kidding? Amber!”
At first, I thought it was a mistake. Maybe my invitation got lost in the mail? Maybe she was waiting to tell me in person? But the weeks passed, and invitations had been sent, but mine never arrived.
I didn’t ask her why. I waited, hoping she’d say something. But she never did. Something wasn’t right.
So, on the day of her wedding, I crashed it.
Dressed in something simple so I wouldn’t stand out, I slipped inside the venue unnoticed, blending into the crowd.
The entire room went silent. People stared, some whispered, and others gave me sympathetic looks, like they had just witnessed something tragic.
My stomach twisted. WHAT THE HELL WAS GOING ON?
Then, Amber turned. And when our eyes met, she went pale. I had never seen that kind of fear on her face before.
And that’s when I saw her groom.
It was Don. My ex-boyfriend. The guy I had been with for five years. The man I had thought I would marry.
The breath rushed out of my lungs. My hands turned cold. It felt like I had stepped into some twisted nightmare.
Memories flooded back — our years together, the nights he had held me, the promises he had made. And the way he had suddenly broken up with me a year ago, out of nowhere, saying he “wasn’t ready for marriage.”
Except now, here he was. At the altar. Marrying my best friend.
Amber’s face said it all. She knew. She had known the whole time.
Don looked just as shocked to see me. His mouth opened, but no words came out.
The whispers in the crowd grew louder. Someone touched my arm, maybe to lead me out, but I shook them off. My legs felt like lead, but I forced myself to move.
I wasn’t going to make a scene. I wasn’t going to cry. If Amber and Don had been keeping this from me, then they knew exactly what they were doing. And if I meant so little to both of them that they would hide it, lie to me, cut me out like I didn’t exist, then I wasn’t going to give them the satisfaction of seeing me break.
So, I straightened my spine, forced a smile, and nodded. “Congratulations.”
Then I turned and walked out.
I don’t remember much after that. The drive home was a blur. My mind kept playing back every conversation, every moment I had spent with both of them, wondering when it had started. Had they been sneaking around behind my back? Had she comforted me during our breakup while secretly waiting for him? Was our entire friendship a lie?
A few hours later, my phone buzzed. Amber.
I didn’t answer. She called again. And again. Then a text.
“Please, let me explain.”
Explain what? That she had betrayed me? That she had lied to my face for God knows how long?
I threw my phone on the couch, ignoring the texts that kept pouring in. Until one caught my eye.
“I never meant to hurt you. I found out after you two broke up. I wanted to tell you, but I was scared. Please, talk to me.”
I should have ignored it. I should have just blocked her and moved on. But something in me needed to hear what she had to say.
So, I called her.
She answered on the first ring. “I’m so sorry. I—I didn’t know how to tell you. I didn’t plan for any of this to happen. It just… did.”
“When?” My voice was ice. “When did it happen?”
“A few months after you two broke up. We ran into each other, and it just…” She hesitated. “It wasn’t planned. I never wanted to hurt you.”
“But you did.” My throat tightened. “And you knew you were hurting me. You made the choice to keep it from me. To lie.”
“I thought if I told you, I would lose you.”
“You lost me anyway.”
Silence.
She sniffled on the other end. “I love him.”
I squeezed my eyes shut. “Then I hope it was worth it.”
And I hung up.
Losing them both hurt. But what hurt more was knowing that the people I had loved most in the world didn’t love me enough to be honest.
It took time, but I moved on. I surrounded myself with real friends. I found someone who actually chose me, without hesitation, without secrets. And one day, when Amber’s number popped up on my phone again, I just deleted it. No anger. No sadness. Just peace.
Because some betrayals cut too deep. And some friendships aren’t meant to be saved.
Sometimes, the best thing you can do is walk away.
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